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This Data Protection Notice (“Notice”) sets out the basis which Thedevelapp Private Limited (“we”, “us”, or “our”) may collect, use, disclose or otherwise process personal data of our customers in accordance with the Personal Data Protection Act (“PDPA”). This Notice applies to personal data in our possession or under our control, including personal data in the possession of organisations which we have engaged to collect, use, disclose or process personal data for our purposes.
As used in this Notice:
“customer” means an individual who (a) has contacted us through any means to find out more about any goods or services we provide, or (b) may, or has, entered into a contract with us for the supply of any goods or services by us; and
“personal data” means data, whether true or not, about a customer who can be identified: (a) from that data; or (b) from that data and other information to which we have or are likely to have access.
Depending on the nature of your interaction with us, some examples of personal data which we may collect from you include name, email address, phone number, gender, profile picture, hight, weight and date of birth.
Other terms used in this Notice shall have the meanings given to them in the PDPA (where the context so permits).
We generally do not collect your personal data unless (a) it is provided to us voluntarily by you directly or via a third party who has been duly authorised by you to disclose your personal data to us (your “authorised representative”) after (i) you (or your authorised representative) have been notified of the purposes for which the data is collected, and (ii) you (or your authorised representative) have provided written consent to the collection and usage of your personal data for those purposes, or (b) collection and use of personal data without consent is permitted or required by the PDPA or other laws. We shall seek your consent before collecting any additional personal data and before using your personal data for a purpose which has not been notified to you (except where permitted or authorised by law).
We may collect and use your personal data for any or all of the following purposes:
(a) performing obligations in the course of or in connection with our provision of the goods and/or services requested by you;
(b) verifying your identity;
(c) responding to, handling, and processing queries, requests, applications, complaints, and feedback from you;
(d) managing your relationship with us;
(e) processing payment or credit transactions;
(f) complying with any applicable laws, regulations, codes of practice, guidelines, or rules, or to assist in law enforcement and investigations conducted by any governmental and/or regulatory authority;
(g) any other purposes for which you have provided the information;
(h) transmitting to any unaffiliated third parties including our third-party service providers and agents, and relevant governmental and/or regulatory authorities, whether in Singapore or abroad, for the aforementioned purposes; and
(i) any other incidental business purposes related to or in connection with the above.
We may disclose your personal data:
(a) where such disclosure is required for performing obligations in the course of or in connection with our provision of the goods and services requested by you; or
(b) to third party service providers, agents and other organisations we have engaged to perform any of the functions with reference to the above mentioned purposes.
The consent that you provide for the collection, use and disclosure of your personal data will remain valid until such time it is being withdrawn by you in writing. You may withdraw consent and request us to stop collecting, using and/or disclosing your personal data for any or all of the purposes listed above by submitting your request in writing or via email to our Data Protection Officer at the contact details provided below.
Upon receipt of your written request to withdraw your consent, we may require reasonable time (depending on the complexity of the request and its impact on our relationship with you) for your request to be processed and for us to notify you of the consequences of us acceding to the same, including any legal consequences which may affect your rights and liabilities to us. In general, we shall seek to process your request within thirty (30) business days of receiving it.
Whilst we respect your decision to withdraw your consent, please note that depending on the nature and scope of your request, we may not be in a position to continue providing our goods or services to you and we shall, in such circumstances, notify you before completing the processing of your request. Should you decide to cancel your withdrawal of consent, please inform us in writing in the manner described in clause 7 above.
Please note that withdrawing consent does not affect our right to continue to collect, use and disclose personal data where such collection, use and disclose without consent is permitted or required under applicable laws.
If you wish to make (a) an access request for access to a copy of the personal data which we hold about you or information about the ways in which we use or disclose your personal data, or (b) a correction request to correct or update any of your personal data which we hold about you, you may submit your request in writing or via email to our Data Protection Officer at the contact details provided below.
Please note that a reasonable fee may be charged for an access request. If so, we will inform you of the fee before processing your request.
We will respond to your request as soon as reasonably possible. In general, our response will be within thirty (30) business days. Should we not be able to respond to your request within thirty (30) days after receiving your request, we will inform you in writing within thirty (30) days of the time by which we will be able to respond to your request. If we are unable to provide you with any personal data or to make a correction requested by you, we shall generally inform you of the reasons why we are unable to do so (except where we are not required to do so under the PDPA).
To safeguard your personal data from unauthorised access, collection, use, disclosure, copying, modification, disposal or similar risks, we have introduced appropriate administrative, physical and technical measures such as up-to-date antivirus protection, encryption, use of privacy filters, and disclosing personal data both internally and to our authorised third-party service providers and agents only on a need-to-know basis.
You should be aware, however, that no method of transmission over the Internet or method of electronic storage is completely secure. While security cannot be guaranteed, we strive to protect the security of your information and are constantly reviewing and enhancing our information security measures.
We generally rely on personal data provided by you (or your authorised representative). In order to ensure that your personal data is current, complete, and accurate, please update us if there are changes to your personal data by informing our Data Protection Officer in writing or via email at the contact details provided below.
We may retain your personal data for as long as it is necessary to fulfil the purpose for which it was collected, or as required or permitted by applicable laws.
We will cease to retain your personal data or remove the means by which the data can be associated with you, as soon as it is reasonable to assume that such retention no longer serves the purpose for which the personal data was collected and is no longer necessary for legal or business purposes.
We generally do not transfer your personal data to countries outside of Singapore. However, if we do so, we will obtain your consent for the transfer to be made and we will take steps to ensure that your personal data continues to receive a standard of protection that is at least comparable to that provided under the PDPA
You may contact our Data Protection Officer if you have any enquiries or feedback on our personal data protection policies and procedures, or if you wish to make any request, in the following manner:
Martina Troppmair
thedevelapp@resguard-solutions.com
Please visit following link to reach out to us for any query:
Data Protection Request
If you have any complaint, grievance, or feedback regarding how we are handling your Personal Data or about our compliance with the PDPA, you are welcome to contact us with your complaint, grievance, or feedback.
Kindly contact us through one of the following methods with your complaint, grievance, or feedback: E-Mail to DPO
We will certainly aim to deal with any complaint, grievance, or feedback that you may have efficiently and fairly.
This Notice applies in conjunction with any other notices, contractual clauses and consent clauses that apply in relation to the collection, use and disclosure of your personal data by us.
We may revise this Notice from time to time without any prior notice. You may determine if any such revision has taken place by referring to the date on which this Notice was last updated. Your continued use of our services constitutes your acknowledgement and acceptance of such changes.
Website
Every time an user visits our website, technical information of the user is collected for the contributions to the subject of information security, information (also referred to as server log files) is automatically collected by us or the webspace provider.
Among other information this includes: website name, file, date, data volume, web browser and web browser version, operating system, the domain name of your Internet provider, the referrer URL (the page from which you accessed our offer) and the IP address.
Without this information, it would not be technically possible to deliver and display the website content. In this respect, collecting data is absolutely necessary. Furthermore, we use this information for statistical purposes. They help us to optimise our services and technology. We also reserve the right to check the log files in case of suspected illegal use of our services.
Thedevelapp Private Limited does not track its customers over time and across third party websites to provide targeted advertising and therefore does not respond to Do Not Track (DNT) signals.
Cookies
This website uses cookies. Cookies are text files that are stored on your computer by the server. They contain information about the browser, the IP address, the operating system and the Internet connection. We will not pass on this data to third parties or link it to personal data without your consent.
Cookies have two main purposes. They help us make it easier for you to navigate through our services and they also enable the website to be displayed correctly. They are not used to spread viruses or to open programs.
Integrating third-party services and content
Our range includes content, services, and services from other suppliers. For example, this might be videos, graphics, or images from other websites. In order for this data to be retrieved and displayed in the user’s browser, transmitting the IP address is absolutely necessary. The providers (hereinafter referred to as “third-party providers”) detect the IP address of the respective user.
Contact form
If you contact us via the online contact form or by email, we will save the information you provide, your IP address and the time it was sent. This allows us to answer your request and ask possible follow-up questions.
Google Analytics
This website uses the standard analysis tool “Google Analytics” of Google Inc. (short: “Google”). Google Analytics uses cookies (text files that are stored on the computer). The generated information about the use of the website is transmitted to an American server of Google and stored for further processing. With your privacy in mind, we have extended Google Analytics with the option “anonymizeIP” so that all data is collected anonymously. The default IP address provided by your browser will not be merged with other data provided by Google. In exceptional cases, the full IP address will be transmitted and truncated on a Google (US) server.
The data collected by Google Analytics is evaluated to generate reports on user activity and to optimize your user experience. In order to contradict the storage of the cookies, please make the appropriate setting in your browser. Please note that you can only use other areas of this website to a limited extent.
Job Applications
If you apply to Thedevelapp Private Limited, we process your personal data as a controller. Providing your personal data is necessary for an application to proceed. You are entitled to the data subject rights outlined in this document.
Lawfulness
We process your personal data to take steps prior to an employment at your request. Any additional processing beyond this application process is based on another, separately declared legal basis.
Application process
Our application process is mostly conducted by email and includes following steps:
The extent of your application documents is determined by you. We will only collect data necessary to proceed with the application process.
If we invite you to an interview, we collect further personal data encompassing your personal interests and particulars of your professional aspirations and qualification.
Transfer of application data
We share your application data within our organisation with persons involved in the application process: human resources managers, subject matter experts and potential superiors.
Storage and record keeping
If you enter into an employment contract with us, we keep your application data until the conclusion of that contract’s retention periods.
If we do not close an employment contract, we keep your application data for twelve months. If you want to receive updates on open positions, you may grant us your separate, written consent to do so.
The Company is committed to providing a safe and respectful environment for all users of the Service. By accessing or using the Service, you agree to adhere to the following guidelines regarding content and user conduct:
Prohibited Content
Prohibited Conduct
Reporting and Enforcement
User Responsibility
You acknowledge that you are solely responsible for your conduct and the content you upload, post, transmit, or share on the Service. The Company does not endorse or assume any responsibility for the content or conduct of its users.
Compliance with Law
You shall comply with all applicable laws, regulations, and third-party rights while using the Service. Any illegal or unauthorized use of the Service is strictly prohibited.
Termination
The Company reserves the right to terminate or suspend your access to the Service at any time, without prior notice, for violation of this Agreement or any applicable laws or regulations.
By using the Service, you agree to abide by these guidelines and understand that failure to comply may result in the termination of your access to the Service and possible legal consequences.
By participating in the GYMPAIR Referral Program (“Program”), you agree with the terms and policies set forth in the agreement (“Agreement”) below.
Please read the entire Agreement. It is a legal agreement between you and GYMPAIR. By submitting the online application, you are agreeing that you have read and understand the terms and policies of this Agreement, and that, if GYMPAIR accepts your application, you agree to be legally responsible for each and every term and policy.
Your participation in the Program is solely for the purpose of legally advertising GYMPAIR to receive compensation for referral.
This Agreement begins when GYMPAIR accepts you into the Program and will end when your participation is terminated. Only member of the mobile application GYMPAIR or website GYMPAIR.com can participate in this Program.
GYMPAIR may change the Program or this Agreement at any time without notice. If any change to the Program or the Agreement is unacceptable to you, your only choice is to terminate your participation. Your continuing participation in the Program will constitute your acceptance of any change.
You or GYMPAIR may suspend or terminate your participation in the Program at any time for any reason. You are only eligible to earn compensation while you are participating in the Program in accordance with the terms of this Agreement.
Referral Arrangement. Upon the Effective Date of this Agreement, you may, from time to time, refer potential customers to the GYMPAIR. The GYMPAIR will pay you compensation for referring with a red mask while stocks last or with the value of point from the point system.
Compensation. The GYMPAIR shall provide you as mentioned below for successful referral, where a successful referral is defined as a referral that becomes a successful registration of the GYMPAIR. The GYMPAIR shall pay you within thirty (30) days of a completed referral, where a completed referral will be the engagement of the new client/customer or definitive action that the referral will not become a new client/customer.
Refer 4 users/clients/customers = **1 Limited edition Red Mask
** While Stocks Last
Once the stock has run out, a point reward system will be in place where every 4 referal = 10gp points added to the referrers profile. Whereas if registration mask stock runs out, referral will receive 5gp points added to their profile upon a successful registration
This Agreement shall not be construed to create any employment relationship, agency relationship, or partnership between you and GYMPAIR. You will provide services for GYMPAIR as an independent contractor. You will have no authority to bind GYMPAIR into any agreement, nor will you be considered an agent of GYMPAIR in any respect.
GYMPAIR will not be responsible for any taxes that you owe arising out of your relationship with GYMPAIR as set forth in this Agreement. GYMPAIR will not withhold any taxes from the compensation paid to you.
You shall include a disclosure statement within any and all pages or posts where you use affiliate links in an endorsement or review, and where it is not clear that the link is a paid advertisement. This disclosure statement should be clear and concise, stating that GYMPAIR is compensating you for your review or endorsement.
GYMPAIR makes no express or implied warranties or representations with respect to the Program.
GYMPAIR makes no representation that the operation of the Program will be uninterrupted or error-free, and GYMPAIR will not be liable for the consequences of any interruptions or errors.
You represent and warrant the following:
1) You have the legal authority to enter into this Agreement and to be bound to the terms and policies set forth in this Agreement.
2) You do not compete with GYMPAIR. You are not an employee, agent, or partner with any person or company that competes with GYMPAIR. You may be an affiliate with or an independent contractor to persons or companies that compete with GYMPAIR.
3) You are not allowed to promote or advertise in any that puts GYMPAIR in bad light, all advertisements must be approved by GYMPAIR to ensure safe payouts.
You will indemnify and hold harmless GYMPAIR from any claim, damage, lawsuit, action, complaint, or other costs arising out of any breach of your warranties set forth above. You will also indemnify and hold harmless GYMPAIR for any damage, loss, or other cost arising out of your use or misuse of the Assets.
Any information that you are exposed to by virtue of your relationship with GYMPAIR under these terms and policies, which information is not available to the general public, shall be considered to be confidential company information. You may not disclose any confidential company information to any person or entity, except where compelled by law, unless you obtain prior written consent for such disclosure from GYMPAIR.
GYMPAIR will not be liable for any loss of profits or costs, or for any direct, indirect, special, incidental, or consequential damages, including costs associated with the procurement of substitute goods or services (whether GYMPAIR was or should have been aware or advised of the possibility of such damage), arising out of or associated with any loss, suspension, or interruption of service, termination of this Agreement, use or misuse of the Assets, or other performance of services under this Agreement.
The agreement can be canceled or terminated by us. We may terminate this agreement at any time, with or without cause, upon written notice. We will have no liability to you or any third party because of such termination.
Effect of Termination. Upon termination of these Terms for any reason, or cancellation or expiration of this agreement: (a) We will cease providing the Services; (b) you will not be entitled to any refunds or usage fees, or any other fees, pro-rata or otherwise; (c) any fees you owe to us will immediately become due and payable in full, and (d) we may delete your archived data within 30 days. All sections of the Terms that expressly provide for survival, or by their nature should survive, will survive termination of the Terms, including, without limitation, indemnification, warranty disclaimers, and limitations of liability.
Legal Fees. In the event of a dispute resulting in legal action, the successful Party will be entitled to its legal fees, including, but not limited to its attorneys’ fees.
Governing Law and Jurisdiction. The terms herein will be governed by and construed under the law of Singapore without giving effect to any principles of conflicts of law. The courts of Singapore shall have exclusive jurisdiction over any dispute arising from this agreement.
At gympair.com, membership cancellations received within 3 days of Renewal may be eligible to receive a full refund less the $50 admin fee.
Cancellations received after the stated deadline will not be eligible for a refund. Cancellations will be accepted via e-mail and must be received within the stated cancellation deadline for a refund.
Moreover, if we remove or suspend you for your breach of the Website/Mobile Application terms then you will not receive a refund for our service.
In a determination to accomplish user satisfaction, if there is an issue, you can contact us for a refund or any other issues through our email admin@thedevelapp.com.
We are happy to support you if there is any issue you can contact our back-office team for any inquiry or problem.
If for any reason, our customer support staff confirms a refund. Then, a refund will be made accordingly.
METHODS OF PAYMENT AND REFUND
We will refund your amount to the original payment method, once it has been processed.
The complete refund process normally takes about 5-20 working days from the date of confirmation of the refund.
Last updated [July 1st, 2023]
Our Privacy Policy forms part of and must be read in conjunction with, website and Mobile Application Terms and Conditions. We reserve the right to change this Privacy Policy at any time.
We respect the privacy of our users and every person who visits our site www.gympair.com and Mobile Application “GYMPAIR”. Here THEDEVELAPP PRIVATE LIMITED referred to as (“we”, “us”, or “our”), we are committed to protecting your personal information and your right to privacy under this Privacy policy. If you have any questions or concerns about our policy or our practices about your personal information, please contact us at admin@thedevelapp.com.
When you visit our website www.gympair.com (“Site”) and Mobile Application (“GYMPAIR”) and use our services, you trust us with your personal information. We take your privacy very seriously. In this privacy notice, we describe our privacy policy. We seek to explain to you in the clearest way possible what information we collect, how we use it, and what rights you have concerning it. We hope you take some time to read through it carefully, as it is important. If there are any terms in this privacy policy that you do not agree with, please discontinue the use of our site and our services.
This privacy policy applies to all information collected through our website and mobile application, and/or any related services, sales, marketing, or events (we refer to them collectively in this privacy policy as the “Website and Mobile Application“).
At GYMPAIR, we offer you a meticulously designed online platform where allows people to find a gym buddy.
We are located in Singapore.
Please read this privacy policy carefully as it will help you make informed decisions about sharing your personal information with us.
We collect personal information that you voluntarily provide to us when expressing an interest in obtaining information about us or our services when participating in activities on the Website and Mobile Application or otherwise contacting us.
The personal information that we collect depends on the context of your interactions with us and the Website and Mobile Application, the choices you make, and the features you use. The personal information we collect can include the following:
Name and Contact Data. We collect your first and last name, email address, postal address, phone number, Vaccinated, Age, Height, Gym Location List Dropdown, and other similar contact data.
Credentials. We collect passwords, password hints, and similar security information used for authentication and account access.
Payment Data. We collect data necessary to process your payment if you make purchases, such as your payment instrument number (such as a credit card number), and the security code associated with your payment instrument. All payment data is stored by our payment processor and you should review its privacy policies and contact the payment processor directly to respond to your questions.
We automatically collect certain information when you visit, use, or navigate the Website and Mobile Application. This information does not reveal your specific identity (like your name or contact information) but may include device and usage information, such as your IP address, browser, and device characteristics, operating system, language preferences, referring URLs, device name, country, location, information about how and when you use our Website and Mobile Application and other technical information. If you access our site with your mobile device, we may automatically collect device information (such as your mobile device ID, model, and manufacturer), operating system, version information, and IP address. This information is primarily needed to maintain the security and operation of our Website and Mobile Application, and for our internal analytics and reporting purposes.
Like many businesses, we also collect information through cookies and similar technologies. You can find out more about this in our Cookie Policy.
We may obtain information about you from other sources, such as public databases, joint marketing partners, social media platforms (such as Facebook), as well as from other third parties.
If you have chosen to subscribe to our newsletter, your first name, last name and e-mail address will be shared with our newsletter provider. This is to keep you updated with information and offers for marketing purposes.
We use your personal information for these purposes in reliance on our legitimate business interests (“Business Purposes”), to enter into or perform a contract with you (“Contractual”), with your consent (“Consent”), and/or for compliance with our legal obligations (“Legal Reasons”). We indicate the specific processing grounds we rely on next to each purpose listed below.
We use the information we collect or receive:
We only share and disclose your information in the following situations:
We may use cookies and similar tracking technologies (like web beacons and pixels) to access or store information. Specific information about how we use such technologies and how you can refuse certain cookies is set out in our Cookie Policy.
Information collected from you may be stored and processed globally in various countries in which our Company or agents or contractors maintain facilities, and by accessing our sites and using our services, you consent to any such transfer of information outside of your country.
Such countries may have laws that are different, and potentially not as protective, as the laws of your own country. Whenever we share personal data originating in the European Economic Area we will rely on lawful measures to transfer that data, such as the Privacy Shield or the EU standard contractual clauses. If you reside in the EEA or other regions with laws governing data collection and use, please note that you are agreeing to the transfer of your personal data to the countries in which we operate. By providing your personal data, you consent to any transfer and processing in accordance with this Policy. We will not transfer your personal information to an overseas recipient.
The Website and Mobile Application may contain advertisements from third parties that are not affiliated with us and which may link to other websites, online services, or mobile applications. We cannot guarantee the safety and privacy of data you provide to any third parties. Any data collected by third parties is not covered by this privacy policy. We are not responsible for the content or privacy and security practices and policies of any third parties, including other websites, services, or applications that may be linked to or from the Website and Mobile Application. You should review the policies of such third parties and contact them directly to respond to your questions.
We will only keep your personal information for as long as it is necessary for the purposes set out in this privacy policy unless a longer retention period is required or permitted by law (such as tax, accounting, or other legal requirements). When we have no ongoing legitimate business need to process your personal information, we will either delete or anonymize it, or, if this is not possible (for example, because your personal information has been stored in backup archives), then we will securely store your personal information and isolate it from any further processing until deletion is possible.
We have implemented appropriate technical and organizational security measures designed to protect the security of any personal information we process. However, please also remember that we cannot guarantee that the internet itself is 100% secure. Although we will do our best to protect your personal information, the transmission of personal information to and from our Website and Mobile Application is at your own risk. You should only access the services within a secure environment.
We do not knowingly solicit data from or market to children under 16 years of age. By using the Website and Mobile Application, you represent that you are at least 16 or that you are the parent or guardian of such a minor and consent to such minor dependent’s use of the Website and Mobile Application. If we learn that personal information from users less than 16 years of age has been collected, we will deactivate the account and take reasonable measures to promptly delete such data from our records. If you become aware of any data we have collected from children under age 16, please contact us at admin@thedevelapp.com.
You may at any time review or change the information in your account or terminate your account by:
Contacting us using the contact information provided below
Upon your request to terminate your account, we will deactivate or delete your account and information from our active databases. However, some information may be retained in our files to prevent fraud, troubleshoot problems, assist with any investigations, enforce our Terms of Use, and/or comply with legal requirements.
Cookies and similar technologies: Most Web browsers are set to accept cookies by default. If you prefer, you can usually choose to set your browser to remove cookies and to reject cookies. If you choose to remove cookies or reject cookies, this could affect certain features or services of our Website and Mobile Application.
We may update this privacy policy from time to time. The updated version will be indicated by an updated “Revised” date and the updated version will be effective as soon as it is accessible. If we make material changes to this privacy policy, we may notify you either by prominently posting a notice of such changes or by directly sending you a notification. We encourage you to review this privacy policy frequently to be informed of how we are protecting your information.
If you have questions or comments about this policy, email us at admin@thedevelapp.com or, you may fill the contact form available on the Website.
The calculators provided on our website are intended for informational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The results obtained from these calculators are based on conventional formulas such as BMI (Body Mass Index) and macro calculations commonly used in the field.
It is important to note that these calculators are not intended to provide personalized medical recommendations or take into account individual health conditions, medications, allergies, or other factors that may influence an individual’s health or well-being. The information provided by these calculators should not be relied upon as a definitive measure of health or fitness.
We strongly encourage all users to consult with a qualified healthcare professional or medical practitioner before making any decisions or taking any actions based on the results obtained from these calculators. Each person’s health and nutritional needs are unique, and only a healthcare professional can provide an accurate assessment and tailored advice based on individual circumstances.
Furthermore, the information provided on our website is subject to change and may not always reflect the most up-to-date medical or scientific research. We make no representations or warranties of any kind, express or implied, regarding the accuracy, completeness, reliability, or suitability of the information provided.
By using our calculators and accessing the information on our website, you agree that you do so at your own risk. We shall not be held liable for any damages, losses, or injuries arising from the use of or reliance on the information provided by these calculators or our website.
If you have any specific medical concerns or questions, we strongly recommend that you seek the guidance of a qualified healthcare professional.
Some features of our apps are inspired by following websites:
Although we borrowed ideas of these calculators from above mentioned websites but implementation, graphics and technology used are our own which may have differences from sources.
While using the GymPair application, it’s important to prioritize your safety when interacting with unfamiliar individuals. Meeting new people can be thrilling, but exercising caution is crucial. Whether you’re exchanging initial messages or planning to meet in person, rely on your instincts and exercise sound judgment. While you cannot influence the behavior of others, you can take proactive steps to ensure your safety.
You can report any concerns about suspicious behaviour from any profile page or messaging window here.
Allocate sufficient time to acquaint yourself with the other person before making arrangements to meet or engage in off-platform communication. Don’t hesitate to pose inquiries to identify any potential warning signs or personal incompatibilities. Prioritize a phone or video call as an effective means of screening before meeting in person. Remember, it’s essential to proceed at a comfortable pace and ensure your safety and compatibility.
For initial encounters, select well-populated and public venues—avoid meeting at personal residences, your date’s home, or any other private locations. If your date insists on going to a private venue, it is advisable to conclude the date promptly. Prioritizing public settings helps ensure your safety and promotes a more secure environment for both parties involved.
It is crucial to share your plans with a trusted friend or family member, including details about when and where you intend to go. Keep your cell phone charged and accessible throughout the duration of your outing. This ensures that you have a reliable means of communication readily available at all times.
It is important to have autonomy over your transportation arrangements when attending a date, allowing you the freedom to depart whenever you wish. If you choose to drive yourself, it is advisable to have a contingency plan in place, such as a ride-share app or a reliable friend who can provide you with a ride if needed. By being proactive and prepared, you can ensure that you have options available for safe and convenient transportation.
Take into consideration how drugs or alcohol specifically affect you, as they can potentially impair your judgment and alertness. If your date attempts to coerce you into consuming drugs or consuming more alcohol than you are comfortable with, it is essential to stand your ground and conclude the date. Prioritizing your personal limits is key in maintaining your well-being and ensuring a safe and comfortable experience.
Remain vigilant regarding the origin and whereabouts of your drink at all times. Only accept beverages that are poured or served directly by a bartender or server. It’s important to be aware that substances used to facilitate sexual assault can be undetectable as they lack odor, color, and taste. Additionally, ensure that your phone, purse, wallet, and any items containing personal information are kept on your person at all times. By taking these precautions, you enhance your personal safety and minimize the risk of unauthorized access to your belongings.
It is completely acceptable, and even encouraged, to conclude the date early if you are experiencing discomfort. Your well-being takes precedence. If your instincts signal that something is amiss or you feel unsafe, do not hesitate to seek assistance from the bartender or server. They are there to help ensure a safe environment and can provide support if needed.
Traveling with Caution
We acknowledge and uphold the significance of inclusivity for all gender identities and sexual orientations. However, it is important to acknowledge the reality that potential risks exist in every corner of the world, and certain countries may have laws that specifically target LGBTQ+ individuals.
Exercise Increased Caution while Connecting with Others in these Countries. It is crucial to exercise heightened caution when choosing to connect with new individuals in these countries, as some law enforcement agencies have been known to utilize dating apps as potential means for entrapment. Additionally, it is important to note that certain countries have recently enacted laws that criminalize communications between individuals on same-sex dating applications or websites, with further penalties imposed if these communications result in sexual encounters.
Visit ILGA World to see the latest sexual orientation laws by country, and consider donating to support their research.
Source: ILGA World, Updated March 2019
When used correctly and consistently, condoms can significantly reduce the risk of contracting and passing on STI’s like HIV. But, be aware of STIs like herpes or HPV that can be passed on through skin-to-skin contact. The risk of contracting some STIs can be reduced through vaccination.
Not all STIs show symptoms, and you don’t want to be in the dark about your status. Stay on top of your health and prevent the spread of STIs by getting tested regularly. Here’s where you can find a clinic near you (US only).
Communication is everything: Before you get physically intimate with a partner, talk about sexual health and STI testing. And be aware — in some places, it’s actually a crime to knowingly pass on an STI. Need help starting the conversation? Here are some tips.
All sexual activity must start with consent and should include ongoing check-ins with your partner. Verbal communication can help you and your partner ensure that you respect each other’s boundaries. Consent can be withdrawn at any time, and sex is never owed to anyone. Do not proceed if your partner seems uncomfortable or unsure, or if your partner is unable to consent due to the effects of drugs or alcohol. Read more about it here.
Remember — even if you follow these tips, no method of risk reduction is perfect. If you have a negative experience, please know that it is not your fault and help is available. Report any incidents GymPair, and consider reaching out to one of the resources below. If you feel you are in immediate danger or need emergency assistance, call 911 (U.S. or Canada) or your local law enforcement agency.
RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotline
1-800-656-HOPE (4673) | online.rainn.org | www.rainn.org
Planned Parenthood
1-800-230-7526 | www.plannedparenthood.org
National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 | www.thehotline.org
National Human Trafficking Hotline
1-888-373-7888 or text 233733 | www.humantraffickinghotline.org
National Sexual Violence Resource Center
1-877-739-3895 | www.nsvrc.org
National Center for Missing & Exploited Children
1-800-THE-LOST (843-5678) | www.cybertipline.com
Cyber Civil Rights Initiative
1-844-878-2274 | www.cybercivilrights.org
VictimConnect – Crime Victim Resource Center
1-855-4VICTIM (855-484-2846) | www.victimconnect.org
FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center
www.ic3.gov
LGBT National Help Center
1-888-843-4564 | www.glbtnationalhelpcenter.org
Trans Lifeline
1-877-565-8860 (US) or 1-877-330-6366 (CA) | www.translifeline.org
If you are outside the US: